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Story of Ice for Party?

I was once coming out after supper. Most of my fellow companions were also present in the same campus. I saw a friend of mine carrying a flask of ice. I was surprised. I began to judge that person and the situation. I assumed that some of my friends were getting the ice for some party. The next day I asked my friend about the night party and he was looking bewildered. He was confused and he asked me “What party?” I reminded him of the ice he was carrying last night. He then told me something that made me turn red. He said that his brother had very high fever the previous night and he was taking some ice to cool his forehead. I realized that I had been such a fool. Very often we tend to judge people without any reason or rhyme. Dr. David Burns says "It’s your right to make a few mistakes. If people can't accept your imperfections, that's their fault."

Do not Judge!

   A young lady was waiting for her flight in the boarding room of a big airport. As she had to wait for  hours, she decided to buy a book to spend her time. Along with the book she bought a packet of cookies too.    She sat down on an armchair, in the VIP room of the airport, to rest and read in peace. Beside the armchair where  the packet of cookies were kept, a man sat down, opened his magazine and started reading.  When she ate the first cookie, the man also took one.  She felt infuriated but didn’t say anything.    She just thought:  “What a nerve! If I was in the mood I would punch his eye so that he does not forget this daring!” To each cookie she ate, the man ate another one.  That was making her fume up with rage but she couldn’t react.  When only one  cookie remained, she thought: “ah... What will this stupid man  do now?” To her anguish, the man divided the last cookie and gave her on...